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Guy number one.... Did you tell him he was a stinkbug?

I think love at first sight is TOTALLY possible. It happens to me all the time. ;)

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Feb 2·edited Feb 2Liked by Sarah Reynolds

Congrats! Even if it doesn't work out, you remember what worked and can build on that. I met an awesome woman at the start of con-vid and like y'all we didn't care for the games of dating, we just wanted to meet people and get to know them.

I don't like the idea of love at first sight. Enamored by his personality and looks, yes. But love takes time!

I prefer "oatmeal love" which nourishes... I forget which book that came from, sorry!

In the movie Tanya (about the skater on Hulu?) ... Her mom mentions the difference between gardeners and flowers in relationships. She didn't mention when two gardeners meet because she saw her daughter as a flower (but she wasn't, it was what her mom wanted her to be, a champion).

Here's a good story to read how true love is possible even in a forced marriage.

https://storiestogrowby.org/story/sir-gawain-the-lady-ragnell/

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Dec 25, 2022Liked by Sarah Reynolds

Merry Christmas, Sarah I hope all is well. I thought you had fallen off the face of the planet.

Stay well and hope to hear more from you soon.

Terry

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Dec 3, 2022Liked by Sarah Reynolds

Did he then do the Ghost thing (and I don't mean Patrick Swayze ) At least he was around longer than guy #1. Slow and steady wins the race not the proverbial rabbit.

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Dec 2, 2022Liked by Sarah Reynolds

So please, Sarah; dish on guy #1 (unless you do so in video 2) Did you have another meeting with him? Listen to me, I'm a guy who sounds like a woman asking this question; isn't that a kick in the seat?

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